What to do if you are the bully

Have you ever been the bully?

 

If you are a homophobic bully or use homophobic language here is what you can do...

• Remember no one deserves to be bullied or harassed, ever
• Be careful about what you write, text and say – words are weapons and you never know who you might be hurting
• Ask yourself questions like ‘do I really need to act like this?’ ‘Why do I avoid using racist words but homophobic words are ok?’ 
• Consider how everyone needs a small bit of space to be themselves; just like you have 
• Don’t be tempted to hurt others because they are different to what you are used to - everyone is different
• If you feel strongly, try to rise above it so that you do not direct anger at other people
• Talk to the teacher or another adult about your problems. They may be able to help you
• If you think you might have a different sexuality or gender identity yourself, talk to someone you trust and who you think will be understanding
• It’s never ok to bully people.

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